When I see men and women in the military I always thank them for their dedication to this country and for keeping us safe (a big "thank you" to the editor of the American Airlines magazine for an editorial reminding readers to do this!). Have you ever thought about who these "kids" are? Why they chose the military? What they plan to do with their lives?
Today, at Gate G11, I met Bruce Doughty, age 19. Bruce joined the Army right out of high school and this May, will have served 2 years. When I learned he was on the same flight, I dragged him to the gate agent to exchange seats with him (I had an exit row, which gives you a lot more leg room). As it turns out, the seat next to me was empty so she moved him to that seat. Side note: there was another gentleman at the check-in desk and when he saw me bring Bruce there, he immediately said "does he need a seat on this plane? I'll give him my ticket". How thoughtful!
Once we boarded, I spent some time chatting with Bruce and here's what I learned:
He is currently stationed at Fort Riley (Kansas), and was headed home to Chapel Hill, TN (55 miles south of Nashville) for a two week "vacation" with his family.
Bruce plans to make the Army his career. Right now, he works in Avionics. I had to ask him exactly what that meant and he said he works on BlackHawk helicopters - the radio systems, the eletrical system - anything with a gauge. (he emailed me the two pictures)
He eventually wants to be a pilot which will require him to get a degree, attend officer school and 52 weeks of flight school. He thinks he'll start with helicopters but hopes to eventually fly jets. I'm not sure I've ever seen such confidence and enthusiasm. He loves the work that he does - he said he's loved flying and aircraft since he was a little boy.
I asked him what we could do for him and his fellow soliders..."what do you need?". He said that letters of support from friends and family really helped him get through basic training and he still loves getting them....and we're talking "real" letters, ones that require pen and paper and a stamp.
When I asked him "what do you want to tell people about the Army?", he says its not as easy at it looks. It’s a very technical and demanding job. He thinks some people think being in the Army is just guns and violence .
Lastly, I learned that his sister, Chelsie Kirkland (age 25) is also in the Army. She works in intelligence (intelligence analyst) and is being deployed to Iraq February 5. She will be there 400 days.
Thank you Bruce and Chelsie.
Jan, that's a wonderful story! How great of you to take the time to get to know Bruce and tell his tale. God bless the men and women who protect our freedom.
ReplyDeleteJan,
ReplyDeleteI ran across this blog while doing a google search. It was wonderful to read about your experience with an American Soldier. Further, that you took the time to write about the impression that he made on you.
Most often when people write about our soldiers, they merely speak of what is considered "frightening expereinces" and do not take the time to learn that these soldiers have hope and dreams.
Just wanted to take a moment to thank you, Jan, for taking time to speak with my brother and learn of his character rather than just his duties.
Your support in invaluable.
SGT Chelsie Kirkland
Iraq - OIF - 2010